Out of curiosity if Family Services doesn't come through, but feel like it 
will, IF they want to be found.  I have no idea what it must feel like if 
they do not want to make some sort of connection. Two sentences ago the 
curiosity was Research Hosp. connection.  Have you prepared yourself, as best 
as a person could, for that?  Even if birth parents didn't, I'd almost bet 
that some if not all of other birth family members would.  Then there's 
always the possiblity that one or both may not be living.  I have a friend 
who doesn't want to search while her "father" is living.  Of course, it's her 
choice but the longer she waits the less likely that her birth father is 
alive.  I hope you and Craig both get the results that will be best for you. 
Let me know the outcome.  Good Luck!!
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