From: Steve Ewing 

On Mon, 10 Nov 2003 15:14:24 -0500, Judy Folkenberg
 wrote:

> Adam Flinton wrote:
>
>>>> Go ask a philipino maid if she's allowed to take tea with her
>>>> employers.
>
> Well, probably not...but it's the dichotomy of not taking tea but
> sleeping in the
> employer's bed that I'm talking about.
>
> Judy

I would contend that the latter situation is not one of
"intimacy" any more than a rape would be.

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Steve 
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