I thought I heard HARRIET LEVY (1:116/3000) say: 
 ->>For me, I never get willing until the pain gets great enough.  When the 
 ->>pain *does* get great enough, I am willing to do *anything* to relieve
 ->>it.  Even if it does mean telling all the secrets.  
yeah, I hear that.  and isn't the willingness almost always born of 
desperation, gal?
 ->>Remaining sponsorless *is* IMNSHO a great way to hide out...I know 
 ->>just how damn selective I can be about who I tell what to.  AND it 
 ->>looks like I'm being real open and honest.
yep.   dunno how come that sounds/feels so familiar?  ;-)
 ->>Is that willingness?  I don't know.
yes.  at least, in my book it is.
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