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echo: dads
to: MICHAEL DEIG
from: NANCY BACKUS
date: 2016-04-20 09:35:00
subject: Re: Daughter Advice

-=> Quoting Michael Deig to Ruben Figueroa on 04-10-16  13:17 <=-

Another new voice heard from....  :)   It's great to see the flurry of
activity...  :)   (No, I'm not the moderator, just a long-time
"resident", and token Mom... [g])

 MD> This sounds spot on to me also. Also be able and ready to answer any
 MD> question that she might bring up as to why you have not been in contact
 MD> with her. But at the same time be very careful of how you talk about
 MD> people that has been in her life all this time if there are hurt
 MD> feelings between them and you. Now is not the time for her to see or
 MD> hear about them from you. This is the time for rebuilding between you
 MD> and her and those feelings could hurt that if talked about to early.

Good point.  :)  Better to leave old hurt feelings behind, and not have
them confuse a new relationship being built...  Just like it's always
best not to confuse a child by bringing up the hurts one has with the
other parent, or play one against the other...  :)  Much better to (try,
at least) keep things just to the relationship at hand.  :)

 MD> Michael Deig
 MD> Bufkin Ridge Ranch -Sysop

Are you new to Fidonet (or newly returned)...?  I don't think I
recognize the names...  :)

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