-=> Quoting Michael Deig to Ruben Figueroa on 04-10-16 13:17 <=-
Another new voice heard from.... :) It's great to see the flurry of
activity... :) (No, I'm not the moderator, just a long-time
"resident", and token Mom... [g])
MD> This sounds spot on to me also. Also be able and ready to answer any
MD> question that she might bring up as to why you have not been in contact
MD> with her. But at the same time be very careful of how you talk about
MD> people that has been in her life all this time if there are hurt
MD> feelings between them and you. Now is not the time for her to see or
MD> hear about them from you. This is the time for rebuilding between you
MD> and her and those feelings could hurt that if talked about to early.
Good point. :) Better to leave old hurt feelings behind, and not have
them confuse a new relationship being built... Just like it's always
best not to confuse a child by bringing up the hurts one has with the
other parent, or play one against the other... :) Much better to (try,
at least) keep things just to the relationship at hand. :)
MD> Michael Deig
MD> Bufkin Ridge Ranch -Sysop
Are you new to Fidonet (or newly returned)...? I don't think I
recognize the names... :)
ttyl neb
... Dew knot trussed your spiel chequer to find awl miss stakes.
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