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-=> Quoting Damon A. Getsman to NANCY BACKUS on 12-Nov-2015 22:02 <=-
DAG> Re: and this is the next...
DAG> By: NANCY BACKUS to DAMON A. GETSMAN on Mon Nov 09 2015 12:00:00
NB>> Those internal blocks are the worst to work thru... ;) Either have
NB>> to (mentally) talk one's self past them, or physically remove the
NB>> physical obstacles that fed into forming them... I guess I tend to
NB>> be more likely to do the former... probably doing both would make a
NB>> more permanent fix, though... :)
DAG> Yeah I've identified some habits that are tripping me up from
DAG> getting onto working on these things as much as I should be. I'm
DAG> trying to get one of them under control right now... I hesitate to
DAG> mention what it is, but it seriously holds me back from making much
DAG> progress on the social issues quite a bit.
BTW, if you want to talk privately, I do have email... {my last name}
at bluefrog dot com... I can understand not wanting to have everything
hanging out in public... :)
DAG> Tomorrow will be my first day
DAG> trying out a new scheme of things that should eliminate that little
DAG> bit of trouble. Hopefully things go well for it.
Hope it all went well... :)
DAG> At the very least tomorrow
DAG> I have to get out to that coffee shop for awhile. I'm supposed
DAG> to be having a date there tomorrow night, so I need to hit the shop
DAG> at least long enough to find out how late they're open until.
Makes sense...
NB>> After all, there's always more than one way to disagree... one can be
NB>> harsh and disagreeable, and make the message even less palatable... or
NB>> one can come along with and try to make things easier to take.. :)
DAG> That's the best way to do it. Most of the time. :)
Yeah, once in a while, one does have to be a little more heavy-handed,
just to get the point in... but I always hope that the easier, gentler
ways will work out instead... :)
ttyl neb
... The man who removes a mountain begins by carrying away small stones.
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