Well .. I hope that I am not jumping in mid conversation here .. but I have to
disagree with you ... Marriage is FAR more to me than convenience .... I have
been married for the second time for 5 years .. and I have to tell you ... I
truly love my wife ... I love being with her ... I love giving her attention ..
I love the way she burns the coffee every morning ... I love her smell .. I
love ............. man I could go on and on .. I love everything about her and
I really dont think I could live with out her ...

I think you should think again .. if your marriage is nothing but convenience
maybe you are missing the whole point .. or maybe you have not met the right
person.

Sorry ... I hope you don't take this as a personal attack .. but there is more
to marriage than sharing one set of household appliances





On Mar 04, 2004 07:52am, WARD DOSSCHE wrote to DANNY CEPPA:

>> WD> Life isn't fair ... you've all get ex-'s and I don't, I can't
>> join-in
>> WD> on the juicy tales... :)
 WD> ...
>> If you are not, you may be joining us as a full-fledged member!

 WD> The meter today stands on about 26 years of 'being together'. I know, it
 WD> doesn't mean anything.

 WD> I've learned that completely loose from the fact that our marriage
 WD> "works" for the moment it is far cheaper, and above all
convenient, to
 WD> be married.

 WD> Only one set of all household appliances, only one set of costs related
 WD> to the operation of the 'business' that a life with two (or more) is.
 WD> So if two decide to call it a day and there's no pressing need for
 WD> everybody to go their own way it makes economical sense to organise
 WD> their lives together. I'm certain this reasoning out of convenience is
 WD> far more common than we are ready to accept. After all, we hardly have
 WD> a clue what goes on in the neighbours' bedroom (unless they are very
 WD> noisy and/or explicit).

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