From: Randy H 

http://theresurgence.com/md_blog_2006-11-03_evangelical_leader_quits

"Most pastors I know do not have satisfying, free, sexual
conversations and liberties with their wives. At the risk of being even
more widely despised than I currently am, I will lean over the plate and
take one for the team on this. It is not uncommon to meet pastors’ wives
who really let themselves go; they sometimes feel that because their
husband is a pastor, he is therefore trapped into fidelity, which gives
them cause for laziness. A wife who lets herself go and is not sexually
available to her husband in the ways that the Song of Songs is so frank
about is not responsible for her husband’s sin, but she may not be helping
him either."

--- BBBS/NT v4.01 Flag-5