Well, if you are not willing to rally the group to make changes, or if no one 
is willing to join you then as you have said let it be.  If you did make an 
honest effort than in my opinion I see no reason why you can't wash your 
hands of it.  Now you have to find another meeting or start your own.
 
Hugs
 
Thom 
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