RA>That's going to be a very interesting family in coming years in terms of
  >interpersonal dynamics.  Wouldn't want to live in a family with such
  >strong expectations.  One of my coworkers is a new grandma.  The baby was
  >named 'Hunter' and his father expects him to grow up to love hunting.  I
  >joked to Pat that it is possible Hunter will grow up to be an
  >animal-rights activist who is interested in music.
I think it's damaging to a child to decide ahead of time what they are
going to be (other than loveable, loving, well mannered, honorable,
wonderful human beings, of course.  We should expect *all* our children
are going to grow up to be that!)
                                     Sondra
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