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 "cutiepie"  wrote:

> This conversation was supposed to be advice for me... I found out from
> my sister that he slept with a prostitute.  It was in some letters from
> when he was in the army overseas.  (My sister and her husband were good
> friends with my BF) Before I would sleep with him I asked him about his
> previous sexual activity and he mentioned nothing of this... I only
> found out about when I looked at the letters he wrote my sis and her
> hubby.  Aparently he didn't think it was a big deal.  When I confromted
> him about it I only ment that we sat down and were already talking
> about sex and other stuff.  (Being tested and other things because I
> was worried. ) He lied to me and didn't tell me at the beginning when I
> asked him about the prostitute.  That's why I was upset... and I have a
> strong personal belief against prostitution.

Hello,

It appears as if you shouldn't be surprised that he would lie
to you considering your statement you have a strong belief
against prostitution.

Yet, as we've seen on this forum, a majority (the vast
majority, in fact) of women engage in one form of
prostution or another whether it's sleeping for men for
dinner, financial security through marriage, or
even just a little extra personal attention.

If you're so fired up against prostitution, wouldn't it
make sense for you to maybe use some of your judgemental
rightiousness against women who are perpetuating the practice?

regards,
Mark Sobolewski


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