BG>There seems to be s certain stigma associated with step's & halves when it
BG>comes to relations.  Regardless of your half sister & half brothers only
BG>sharing half of their genes with you, they are truly YOUR SISTER and YOUR
BG>BROTHERS and they are a part of YOUR family.  And they love YOU.
        Well, I only found out they were half three years ago so our
        relationship hasn't changed at all. We have just spent too much
        time as whole sisters and brothers to let this change things. I
        have used the terms half, birth and step to clarify who I'm
        talking about in here. Otherwise, they are my sister and
        brothers and dad.
BG>If your birth father doesn't come around it will be his loss.  It really
BG>will.  It's difficult to think of our fathers not accepting us or
BG>acknowledging that we exist.  But, truly, was he your father?  Did he love
BG>you like the father that raised you?
        If you saw my message about the phone call, you will see that
        Boris passed away about a year ago. He did not refuse the
        letter, another family member did. He had no chance to be a
        father to me or love me like a father, because he was never told
        of me, like I was never told of him. Neither of us had a choice
        in this matter to be together.
BG>I mean no ill intentions towards your search, Sharon.  I am just angry for
BG>you.  I don't understand how, in this day and age --- it's just 3 years 
from
BG>the year 2000! --- how can people be so closed-minded and cold hearted?
        I understand what you are saying. Like I said, he is no longer
        alive. His niece who called me has agreed to look into this
        further to determine if Boris was really my birthfather and will
        talk later about me meeting her and the rest of the family if he
        is. She was very nice and understanding of the whole situation.
        I thank her for that much. The picture that I have is on the way
        to her as we speak. I will keep everyone updated. :-)
BG>Anyway, registered mail would be the way to go vs. certified.  Spend the
BG>extra money and send it "Express Mail" ($10.75) and type the addresses and 
s
BG>There are other ways you might want to try.  You could have a courrier in 
hi
BG>town deliever the letter.  You might want to get advice from people who do
BG>this sort of thing --- like from reunion services, etc.
        These are no longer needed. :-)
BG>By the way, how old is your birthfather?  And is he married?  Have you
BG>actually been to his town to see him?
        My aunt thought he was college age, but his niece said he would
        have be 83 this month. Yes, he was married and his wife is also
        dead. I did take a trip to the town and saw his house, but I had
        no intentions of meeting him just then. I just wanted to see how
        he lived and find out some other information, which I did. I
        didn't send the first letter until after I visited. I think
        everything will clear up now, especially whether he is or is not
        my birthfather.
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