offl1ne wrote:
> "Aggy"  wrote in message
> news:wM4Zd.1976$DM3.291{at}newsfe5-gui.ntli.net...
> > Jim wrote:
> >>she got
> >> her freebie and made a fool out of me....never again!  A career
> >> feminist pig will never take advantage of me again!  I've learned
my
> >> lesson!
> >
> > Did she claim to be a feminist, dear? Are you sure she was a career
woman?
> > She could have been spinning a line. I get the impression this
woman was
> > not
> > the most honest of people.
> >
> > Aggy.
> >
>
> I'm in agreement with Aggy, dear, on this one.
> Just because she can fuck you around and so on doesn't make her a
feminist -
> even if she does hold similar traits.
> I know perfectly normal women who have been known to pull similar
stunts in
> the past and they're not feminists.
> I also know feminists who have pulled similar stunts in the past, and
taken
> great pride in their toying.
> Yeps, I doubt she was actually a feminist - just a normal woman
acting in a
> normal female fashion..deceitful and dishonest.


How was she being deceitful and dishonest?
He asked her out, she said "Coffee or a drink" and he agreed to that.
Nothing in his post shows her being deceitful or dishonet.  They went
out and she wasn't interested.  All she did was not offer to pay half
the bill.  Which doesn't surprise me at all.  Most men I know say that
if they ask the woman out, especially a first date, they expect to pay.
If he didn't expect to or want to pay he should have said something to
her about her share.  It's his fault for not asking just as much as
it's her fault for not offering.
Besides that, if he was so concerned about money he should have
suggested a coffee shop instead of letting her pick the place.  If she
then insisted the expensive restaurant he should have simply said,
"your share is $10" when the bill came.



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