LA>SC>         Right now, I don't know what questions to ask since the first
LA>SC> letter wasn't responded to and the other refused. I can't force them 
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LA>SC> me. I am open for as many suggestions as possible though.
LA>Right now what I can suggest is maybe to get a "third" party involved,
LA>someone who is neutral to both you and your birth father.  This person 
could
LA>approach him and tell him what you want or don't want.  It may be the
LA>easiest way as this person could express why you want to meet him etc.
        I thought of that from the beginning and sometimes wish I would
        have done it. I have a friend who offered to do just that. I
        guess she wouldn't be neutral though, but I know she would be
        honest and trustworthy. The only thing I want is to meet him and
        find out if he is indeed my birthfather. If he is, then all I
        want is a chance to get to know him. I don't plan to try to take
        him away from his family or get anything other than friendship
        from him, and hopefully the rest of the family.
LA>I'll keep looking and thinking for you...
        Thank you for your help and support.
-*- Opus-CBCS 1.7x via O_QWKer 1.7 
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