On 03 Jul 05  03:33:26, Sharon Coyne got back to Maurice Kinal 
-> Re: Guinness

 SC> And they were taught that by their fathers and their fathers were
 SC> taught that by their grandfathers, etc. What gets me is the double
 SC> standard. If a guy has a lot of conquests he is a super stud, but if a
 SC> woman does she is a w***e. That still hasn't changed.

It's allowed in here to add the "her" in here.   Oh, what a minute, I 
think you meant to use an "o"!   (that's still allowed..)  


 MK> Something like that but I think it may have more to do with the idea
 MK> that they failed somehow if it doesn't happen.

 SC> But who considers it a failure? It is the other men. Men have more of
 SC> a tendency to ask if another *got any* than a woman would another
 SC> woman. 

Never been in a woman's college dormitory?  The conversations I 
overheard there were quite graphic.  

 MK> For sure although that tension was probably there before the date even
 MK> started.

 SC> What is it that I heard? A man goes on a date wondering if he will get
 SC> any and the woman already knows. ;-)
 
Thus, the "3 date rule".  

 
 MK> might actually be a very good thing.  Dating is a very tricky
 MK> business.

 SC> I just feel that isn't something you should even have as a goal on a
 SC> first date anyway. The first date should be talking and seeing if that
 SC> *spark* is there. 

I've been on a "no date" and set off that spark.   


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