>   Dear Sharon,
 >
 >   I too am sorry to hear that your letter's where refused,
 >  I would also recomend tring to send one more letter.  Here
 > is another idea,  have a friend drop the letter off in person
 >  ( however caution the deliverer to be as unemotional as
 > possible,  instruct them to say something like theu are
 > delivering it for a friend ect.. do not give the real reason
 > for the letter)..
 >   In the letter state that your last 2 attempts to contect
 > him have gone unanswered and that you understand the misgiuvings
 > he may be having and that you are willing to wait until
 > he is able to come to an understanding about thoes feelings..
 >  Then prepare yourself for that wait.
 >
 >   I hope that helps.  My best frriends last name is Coyne,
 >  I wonder if any relation??
 
        Thank you Brent. My uncle wanted to talk to him, but he holds 
too much bitterness over this so I can't let him do it. It was my mom's 
choice not to tell my birthfather, so there is no need for anyone to be 
bitter toward him. I think that my uncle offered to help just to get at my 
birthfather. I won't have that at all. I want to have a good relationship 
with that part of my family.
 
        Well, Coyne is my married name and your friend could be related 
to my ex's family. Where are you from?
 
 
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