SC>> This thinking is where the book "Men are from Mars:Women are from
 SC>> Venu started I guess. Sure that would fail if the only reason a
 SC>> man goes ou you is for an intimate encounter (being nice there
 SC>> hehehe). I would li think, but know it isn't true, that a guy
 SC>> would want to get to know me "that" happened and at
least like me.
 SC>> The problem is that most men wer that they are owed the intimate
 SC>> encounter just because. See, it is the cause the tension in a
 SC>> date. For men it is wondering if they will get for women wondering
 SC>> if they are going to have to fight the guy off. Of it is a
 SC>> different story if both want it. That could happen. ;-)


 CS> Before all the guys tell you that you are crazy, sadly probably 70%
 CS> the the guys fall in thei catagory.  I think in Fidonet we talk to the
 CS> other 30% who are just not aware of this.

Ok, I'm honestly a little confused. Are you saying that the 30% doesn't go into
a first date expecting it or that they aren't aware of the tension this causes
for both? I'm not doubting your numbers, just not sure what they mean.

Sharon

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