> I'm so sorry to hear this.... I wouldn't give up. Maybe
 > others here might
 > have a few different ways you could try to reach your B-dad.
 > I met my B-mom last week, 12/11 to be be exact. I took some
 > pictures of my
 > family over and she didn't seem very interested. She was
 > friendly but I
 > think she was quite overcome by the moment. Conversation
 > was very hard....
 > "like pulling teeth" as they say. I haven't heard a word
 > from her since. I
 > plan on giving her a call this week to see how she is. She
 > had a
 > chemotherapy treatment recently and I want to see how she's
 > doing. I'm
 > trying to just take it a day at a time.
 
        I hope everything improves for you. The biggest problem here 
is that my birthfather never knew I existed until he got the first letter. I 
understand that he would be shocked because I was when I found out 3 years 
ago that the man who raised me wasn't my birthfather. I lived 46 years of my 
life not knowing. I don't know what I'll do next, if anything. Maybe we 
weren't meant to meet.
 
 
 > Best wishes to you, especially during this holiday season.
 > I wish you luck
 > with your search and will keep you in my prayers.
 
        Thank you. I will pray for you too.
 
 
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