Michaela Mackenzie wrote:
> Turin wrote:
> > Michaela Mackenzie wrote:
> > > bluesmama wrote:
> > > > surfcowboy wrote:
> > > > > Rafer wrote:
> > > > > > 1. Men are restricted from controlling women
through their
> > > natural
> > > > > > means - physical strength. This is said to be
barbaric and
> > brutal
> > > > and
> > > > > > is heavily penalized.
> > > > >
> > > > > It is. Real men don't beat on women in order to
control them.
> > > > > Controlling others is a presumptious thing to do anyway.
> > > > >
> > > > > > 2. Women are not restricted in any way from
controlling men
> > using
> > > > > their
> > > > > > means - emotional strength. Society IGNORES
this specific
> kind
> > of
> > > > > > violence that is inflicted on men by women -
that men are
by
> > > nature
> > > > > not
> > > > > > prepared to defend themselves against.
> > > > >
> > > > > That's bullshit. Maybe YOU aren't preparaed to deal with an
> > > > emotionally
> > > > > abusive woman - but that's just your problem. It's
controlling
> if
> > > you
> > > > > allow it to be so. I'm certainly not in that boat.
> > > > >
> > > > > > 3. FURTHERMORE, today it is MEN who are blamed for
inflicting
> > > > > emotional
> > > > > > violence on women (e.g. screaming at someone - which is
> > > frequently
> > > > a
> > > > > > man's only defense against female
manipulation given that
he
> > > cannot
> > > > > use
> > > > > > his hands - is seen as violence committed by
men against
> women)
> > -
> > > > > which
> > > > > > is a gross mischaracterization of reality.
> > > > >
> > > > > A severe over generalization.
> > > > >
> > > > > > The solution: Either stay away from women;
or, if you must
be
> > > > around
> > > > > > them, (i) make sure that you have an alibi at all times
while
> > in
> > > > > their
> > > > > > presence; and(ii) do not take them seriously AT ALL.
Thinking
> > of
> > > > them
> > > > > > as children will help you retain an objective
stance toward
> > them.
> > > > >
> > > > > That is incredibly stupid advice. First it assumes that ALL
> women
> > > > > behave the way you describe, which is certainly not true.
> > Secondly,
> > > > it
> > > > > ignores the fact that we can choose who we will associate
with
> > and
> > > > who
> > > > > we can avoid. All women are not childish, but your asserion
> that
> > > they
> > > > > are makes you sound very childish.
> > > > >
> > > > > > DO NOT believe that you can fall in love with a woman
today.
> > You
> > > > are
> > > > > > gambling with your sanity, your freedom, and
your dignity -
> and
> > > the
> > > > > > cards are heavily stacked against you.
> > > > >
> > > > > Oh bollocks! That is so stupid as to be ridiculous.
> > > > >
> > > > > > Women have superior skills of manipulation,
deception and
> > > > > interpersonal
> > > > > > communication. These skills developed to
level the playing
> > field
> > > > > > against superior male strength.
> > > > >
> > > > > Some do and some don't. Women are often just as easily
> > manipulated
> > > by
> > > > > us. What strange alternative universe do you live in?
> > > > >
> > > > > > When men are no longer allowed to use their superior
physical
> > > > > strength,
> > > > > > women have both an individual and a
collective advantage.
The
> > > > ability
> > > > > > of men to physically intimidate women in the
past kept a
lot
> of
> > > > those
> > > > > > women in check.
> > > > >
> > > > > Why do you need to hold anyone else in check? That's such a
> > strange
> > > > > thing to say. Why not merely control yourself and leave
others
> to
> > > do
> > > > > likewise?
> > > > > Nothing is more obnoxious than a control freak.
> > > > >
> > > > > > This is why one of the biggest feminist
mantras is: "There
is
> > > never
> > > > > an
> > > > > > excuse for violence against women."
> > > > >
> > > > > There isn't. The best way to deal with a crazy woman is to
walk
> > > away
> > > > > from her.
> > > > >
> > > > > > some MEN's/anti-American women/skank sites:
> > > > >
> > > > > Ummm...no thanks. You need to change your reading habits.
> > > > >
> > > > > RS
> > > >
> > > > The OP's rant sounds like a victim talking - or at least it
does
> to
> > > me.
> > >
> > > And so the cycle continues victim-victimiser...
> >
> >
> > Too bad.  Learn to fight, weakling.
>
> I don't need to fight. I'm not whining here,
> remember?
>
> > > Our Deepest Fear
> > >
> > > Our tits are just too damn small.
> > > Marianne Williamson
>
> Just what is this preoccupation with boombie size
> anyway?
>
> - Michaela

I believe the preoccupation with size is called projection.



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