-=> Quoting Jerry Schwartz to Gary Cassidy <=-
JS> On Sep 06 12:00 96, Gary Cassidy of 1:243/82 wrote to All:
GC> Just wondering if any of you are using a Behaviour Modification system
GC> using
GC> tokens/chips/coins etc? How well has this worked? What kinds of
problems
GC> have you found?
JS> I had no luck with it. One common aspect of AD(H)D is an inability to
JS> postpone gratification, and my son has it in spades. Whatever he
JS> wants at the moment, he wants so badly that nothing else matters much.
I know that one. My son is the same way. Any type of behavior modification
works temporarily, and then it has to be changed. Jeremy gets too bored
with the same thing. So his chores have to bee changed to different times
of the day after a few weeks otherwise he just won't do it. It seems that
it is incomprehensible to try to reason with a, "You have to wait until
after dinner", or something to that effect. Patience is not one of his
virtues.
Regina
... All I need is a Wave and a board to surf it on.
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