Hello Ruben,

> # I would submit that what is important 
> # that they know and believe that regardless of their decision that you as a
> # parent will be there for them if needed. Children seem to learn best by 
> # doing. Regardless of the outcome of that doing process.

> I suspect that you are right, it is what I've been thinking, but it is
> hard as hell to get out of this protective mode I've been in for a very
> long time.  Thanks.

Trust me... A parent never really gets out of that protective mode. My kids
are grown and parents themselves. And I still feel the urge to try to
protect them.



Jeff

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